Hey guys;
Now you're probably looking at this title like "who" and don't worry; I am still thinking the same thing! So I am going to be telling you something that happened to me last week. (ps "Carla"; if you read this, there a little bit down the bottom for you to read :) ... )
Last Saturday I had a message request on my Facebook from a "Carla Crane" When I logged onto the messenger app; it just came up saying "request" so I went to look thinking it was one of these "hi join Avon/Juice Plus/ other annoying stuff" but all it said was;
"Hi, Look I'm really sorry I didn't know he was seeing someone" At that point I was a curious little cookie and accepted the message request so I could reply.
Now, I am in a relationship and have been for almost three years; so you could probably guess what was coming next.
Yes. Apparently this Carla Crane has been dating my boyfriend for the last 2 months.
Obviously I'm the type of girl that overacts pretty easily, so at that point I was on the phone to him like "YOU BETTER NOT BE FUCKING CHEATING ON ME" "TELL ME THE TRUTH NOW" I was a bit psycho. And obviously I had one confused boyfriend the other end of the phone thinking I just had a mental breakdown.
So I had my other half on speaker phone; my mum next to me and me talking to this wonderful Carla. I didn't know who to believe at this moment in time, I'll be honest; I have trust issues, so when someone says something like this, your little mind starts to wander.
So the conversation went on, whilst all three of us was investigating this profile. The profile was made 44mins before messaging me. (I mean c'mon Carla; not the best step for making a fake profile; you need to make it at least look real)
Apparently her friend "Hannah" saw my boyfriend hugging a blonde girl in town (this is me) so she asked me "are you his sister or something" Which looking back at it now, you just appologised to me because you didn't realsie he was dating someone; but now you're asking if I'm his sister?! riight. (obviously at this time I didn't question much; I was on rampage)
She was saying she was new to the island and just met my boyfriend, she tried looking him up on facebook but he said he didn't use it NOW REMEMBER THAT OK GUYS. HE DOESN'T USE FACEBOOK; OK REMEMBER THAT (you'll see why)
I told her I'm his girlfriend; who are you. etc
This is where it got fun. I started to get abuse. "What the fuck. Why are you faking being his girlfriend!" I was hurting at the time and all my little brain could get out was "I'm not" Like C'mon Tamsyn; I should have let full Hulk mode out then!
So then I started asking questions such as;
"What number do you text him on"
"why do you have no friends"
You ready for this guys; I quote "He doesn't text we fb msg"
This is where it clicked in.
So this is where I got funny. She starting asking what the hell my problem is. I should check his facebook for Katie. and then deactivated the account.
So things were a bit fun last Saturday night.
Now I don't want lie to anyone. This really mucked with my mind. It made things very difficult between me and my boyfriend and we didn't talk for about a day and a bit. We did almost break up because I couldn't trust. But after a day or so of letting each other calm down. We talked about it and after the anger cleared I could see how fake the account is.
We spent about a day trying to work out who it could be, it could have been one of my friends, his friends, my ex, his ex's. Anyone.
I just want to post this; because I want people to know, that there are slugs in the world that come out of their little hidey hole just to cause problems. But you know what you gotta do to them slugs? Squash them.
Me and my boyfriend did get a bit dodgy from this; so they almost won. But we talked things out and now we are just as good as we were before last Saturday.
Now a message to Carla Crane
You Tired. You Failed. I was angry. Now I'm not. Long shot; but reactivate the account and talk to me. I just want to know why. If you tell me who you are and come clean; rather than me find out (oh and I will find out) Then I will not go ape shit on you. :)
Honestly guys; if anyone of you get messages like this, 90% of the time it will be fake. If it is a fake account doing it, then you can guarantee it's all a load of rubbish and just a little slug wanting some attention.
Anyway; Until next time guys! x
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